Can my partner and I talk to the same AI together?

Yes. Add your partner to your account and you can both read and write in its shared chats. One subscription covers everyone on the account, and getting started is free. Direct invitations to individual chats require a trial or paid plan.

Is a shared AI chat the same as couples therapy?

No. It can help organise a discussion, reflect both perspectives, or summarise decisions, but it is not therapy, diagnosis, crisis support, or a replacement for a qualified professional.

Will my partner see all of my chats?

Chats you start are shared with the people on your account, which is what makes the AI useful between you. Long press any chat to make it private, and nothing from it is shared back.

Shared AI chat for couples: one conversation, both voices

A shared chat gives both partners the same history and space to speak in their own words. The AI asks each of you for your side before it suggests anything, so nobody has to be the messenger.

One conversation with both of you in it

When one person asks an AI about a relationship, the answer only ever sees one account and one version of events. Screenshots sent back and forth make that worse, because now there is a referee deciding which parts get forwarded.

A shared Unium chat puts both of you in the same thread. Either partner can write in their own words, read exactly what the other one asked, and continue the conversation from their own phone. Nobody has to retell the discussion or act as the messenger between their partner and the AI. Want something to start with? The free tools for couples include quizzes you each take on your own and then compare, like the love language quiz and the weekly check-in.

The AI opens the conversation

This is the part that makes it work rather than just being a group chat with a bot in it. The AI starts things off, asks each of you for your side, and only then suggests something. It knows who said what, so it can weigh both accounts instead of siding with whoever typed most recently.

In practice that looks like:

Weekend plans where you want different things and neither of you wants to be the one who gave in.
Money conversations that go better with something neutral holding the numbers.
Chores, in-laws, the trip you keep postponing.
The argument you have had four times, written down once, properly.
A summary at the end of what you actually agreed.

It can organise and reflect what both of you say. It should not diagnose either partner, decide who is the good one, or stand in for professional support when that is what is needed.

Adding your partner takes one link

Send them the link by message, or show the QR code. They join in one tap, on iPhone, Android or the web, with their own account. No shared password, no second subscription: one Unium plan covers everyone on the account, from $10 a month.

Shared by default, private when it should be

Chats you start are visible to the people on your account. That is deliberate, because a relationship chat is useless if only one of you can see it.

Some things are still yours alone. Long press any chat and make it private, and nothing from it is shared back. Buying a present, working out how to say something before you say it, or just a work thing your partner has no reason to read.

Choose the model that fits the moment

Different models handle nuanced or emotional writing quite differently. On a paid plan you can switch between Claude, GPT, Gemini, and others without restarting the conversation, and the shared history stays with the chat. The first two days are free, with no card needed.

For a specific fight rather than the general pattern, see settling an argument. For the money side, see splitting household bills. If the question is bigger than any one fight, staying together or separating offers questions to work through rather than a verdict.

One AI conversation. Both of you in it.