Free relationship tools
Free tools for the two of you
Quizzes, checklists and small games for couples, most of them built to be done together. Free, no sign-up, and your answers stay in your browser.
Answer separately, compare together
Each of you answers on your own. Then you see where you agree and where to start talking.
Chore split checkEach of you says who does what, privately. Then see how differently you see the split.
Money compatibility checkSaving, spending, debt and sharing. Find the money differences before they find you.
Moving in together questionsSpace, guests, cleanliness, money and alone time. Check you want the same home before you share one.
Questions before marriageChildren, money, family, faith, where to live and how you fight. The big ones, compared.
Weekly relationship check-inA two-minute weekly weather report for the two of you, with one wish each for the week.
Date ideas: yes, no, maybeTwenty date ideas, each of you says yes, maybe or no. You only see what you both want.
What movie should we watch?Fourteen quick taste questions each, then the genres you both enjoy and a classic for tonight.
Quizzes
Take one alone, or send it to your partner and see how your results fit together.
Attachment style quizSixteen questions on closeness and worry, then your style. Send it to your partner to see your pairing.
Love language quizFifteen quick either-or choices show how you most like to be loved, and how your partner does.
Conflict style quizHow you each fight: confront, withdraw, smooth over, bargain or solve together. And what happens when your styles meet.
Relationship health checkTwenty questions across six areas, to see what is working and what needs attention.
36 questions to fall in loveThe famous 36 questions as a card deck for two, with turns, pacing and the four-minute finish.
For the hard conversations
Structure for the talks that tend to go wrong: turn-taking, planning, and the words in each other's language.
Argument autopsyAfter a fight, each of you answers six prompts on your own. Then read both sides, side by side.
Fair Fight TimerSpeak, mirror, confirm, swap. A turn-taking timer for arguments, with a time-out button.
Hard conversation plannerPick the topic and how your partner tends to react. Get a plan: when, how to open, what to avoid.
Bilingual couples phrasebookSorry, I need a minute, I love you: the phrases that matter, in your language and theirs.
Practical
Calculators and planners for shared money, schedules, time zones and decisions.
Custody schedule makerCompare 2-2-3, alternating weeks, 2-2-5-5 and more on a real calendar, then export it.
Split bills by income calculator50/50, proportional to income, or equal money left over: see all three for your numbers.
Long-distance time-zone plannerFind the hours you are both awake and free, in each of your local times.
What should we eat? deciderTake turns crossing options off until one is left. Dinner, settled in thirty seconds.
Breakup: who gets whatEach of you spends 100 points on your shared things. A fair-division method splits them.